The look of husband, wife and children

The look of Theresia

Many times the climate in our families become stormy with several clouds of anger that are raised in our day.
Winds of rigid impositions on children and rumble of thunder roaring protests.
Then comes the usual hail of words ice, frustrating every patient education, ruining the shoots of the relationship between parents and children, up to spoil the peace between husband and wife.
What is most worrying is the continuing bad weather.
At times it.s better to look at the sky, study it in a hurry and run for cover, knowing that each of us is also heaven for others.
I look a wife, I look a children and their sky, as deep, it takes us eye.
All of them are immersed: live it, day after day, and it is processed and it is mutual.
With our eyes, we are the sculptors of other people and share responsibility for the beauty of those around us.
We have an enormous power to look creative, able to shape the profile of one who gives us confident his heart.
Change the look to the children or a spouse mean really see it better.
It's difficult, upsetting and sometimes painful, but this can transform lives and bring back the good weather.
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Live in our house

Live in our house

Where is our house?

Our house is where the heart is , where is the head, where you can find the warmth and understanding.

Even when you are away from house, you can take with you anywhere , because the house is the place where you understand and if one side are the people around you that make a difference , are you, that you have to choose which you want to be understood, that you want to remove your house from the suitcase, with everything that's in it , and choose a corner of the earth to support it and start to live there and slowly allow people to approach and help you take care of it.

Of course to do all that there is need to meet the smile of a people, to find that a friend can hide anywhere, and that in time of need , even if the language creates problems, you have someone to talk to and someone who can help you.

If you try these things and live these sensation your heart fills more and you can't help but think about it and want to live next to these people.

It took me a bit of time and a lot of life lived to see that our home is a smell, a voice, a smile.

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Prudence in our lives

Prudence in our lives

Today I want to talk about the caution that many believe a value and passed by people of a certain age.

Instead prudence serves at any age and it is always useful in every circumstance of our lives.

First prudence so that it can take good decisions , it must be clear where to go and where to go.

Who does not have ideals and goals to be achieved in one's life is likely to sail adrift of caprice and to be governed by the frivolity and superficiality.

Of course they are correct and necessary goals is essential to treat the formation of a scale of values ​​to guide our feet into what really is good and brings light in our history.

In fact, a prudent people knows how to use calm and do not hurry, you know ask for advice, observes the consequences of his actions, makes decisions quickly enough and has a correct scale of values ​​that guides its implementation.

I give you a few tips that I have put into practice over the years and I think very useful:

Train yourself to ask for advice.

Write down some of the experiences that they may serve others and to himself in the future.

Think about the consequences of concrete action, to learn how to keep them in account other times.

Order a room is an exercise in order and even training to decide quickly (in one place or the other).

This is good or bad? This simple application helps you to make good decisions and good Porsel many many times during our days.
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Perseverance is important to live

Perseverance is important to live

We are living in a period of history where you notice an atmosphere of tiredness, fatigue and neglect, it seems that: "There is the breath".

Certainly the times we live in aren't easy and, to some extent, they do a little bit scared.

Violence, persecution, misunderstanding, lack of dialogue.

The families we see the uniforms, social structures seem distant from the real needs of the people, there seems to be lack of understanding of everything, even in the context of faith.

Of one thing I am sure the majority of people in the great achievements, as soon as the road gets tough, they give up, but our desire is to get used to perseverance.

Each defeat brings with it the seed of an equivalent success and those who manage to bounce back after a defeat and continue to try to get to the end successfull, and the world then shouts "good! I knew you could do it".

So we do not lose perseverance in doing good and take it forward day by day without stopping.

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The illness and suffering

The illness and suffering

My reflections today on the theme of suffering, each of us during their lifetime suffering in different ways and not always covered by medical.

First of all, we should not be afraid of suffering, there is never given a weight so great that our hearts can't bear.
Suffering helps us to grow, it is not necessary to experience pain, but who knows, it may be said to have fully lived their lives, to have consumed, not to stand still on the surface.
However, many people find their cross too heavy: those who have failed in their profession, who is suffering from an incurable disease, those who have been abandoned by their partners.
Here also, the Christian does not have recipes and much less guarantees that enable them to accomplish this task and to deal positively with the disease more than other men.
Experience shows that even in the Christian disease has a point of reference which can constantly turn has to deal not only with the setback represented by his illness, but also sustain his faith and deal with the crisis and the questioning, as well as must go from knowing quiete abstract of the need to carry the cross behind Jesus, not taking any of a cross, but his own.
The paths that the disease raises and the results to which it leads, are always unpredictable.
The meaning of illness is never already given, but the disease event is an event in which we must, with effort and patience to find the right way.

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The courage to change

The courage to change

These days I found myself talking to many people who are unhappy with their lives that are however not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned by an ephemeral security, conformism, conservatism, all of which seem apparently give you peace of mind, but in reality for the adventurous spirit of each of us there is nothing more devastating than to have no future.

The center of the vital spirit of each people is his passion for adventure.

The joy of living comes from new experiences and hence there is no greater happiness of having a horizon of constant change, the lie every day under a new and different sun.

Not that we have to find the courage to go against the usual lifestyle and throw us into an existence unconventional.

Our time is short, so do not have to waste.

Let us not be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people's thinking.

Don't let the noise of others opinions drown out our inner voice.

We find the courage to follow our heart and our intuition.

The world is in the hands of those who dare to dream and take the chance to live their dreams.

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The house in the heart

The house in the heart

Our emotions, our passions all starts from our hearts and from where we want them to leave. 

Our true house is in fact where you will find our heart.
We may be close to any people, but if our heart is somewhere else near each becomes far.
The board is to decide our course and face the sea of ​​life that is not always calm and quiet, treasuring the advice of friends and not abandoning the people who really love us and leave us alone.

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Serious or seriousness

Seriousness (Island Banana in Indonesia)

Use the seriousness or be a serious people. 

The real maturity of man lies in the seriousness that children put in the game.
We learn to live life and not take it too seriously, but seriously.
Work seriously, but not taking the complaints that are made to us in a personal way.
If you take yourself, you are angry and you will lose our advantage.
If you take them personally, you put you against them.
Instead, make sure you draw close to people and to life using the seriousness and commitment to accept all situations and work to ensure that you are happy with what you do and how you live.
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The harmony in the family

The harmony

One of the words that I like best is the harmony, who is capable of knowing how to put harmony into their needs and abilities, he found the source of wealth and happiness. 

In our family we have to try this harmony, while in our friends: sincerity. 

Any wise man creates his own family by teaching them how to live together in harmony and to help each other. 

In fact, between two or more people, the harmony is never a given, but must be continually challenged and conquered. 

If each maximum of us managed to create a deep harmony with all people and things around him, I think the world would shine a great light, generated by an irresistible glow of so many stars together, which would be able to shed some light even on days where darkness reigns supreme.

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The memory unites

Caves of Bantimurung: Indonesia

Tighten your memories stronger, it happens to everyone I need it on a dark night with no moon, when all seems lost and useless. 

The memory is like a caress, timeless place that you go to where you need it.
The memories, the good ones, in fact, continue to live and shine forever, sometimes causing pain with the passage of time, but the memory is the flame that keeps us alive, the force that has helped us to survive and men faced day after day .
Each of us has these memories, which tells only friends, but also has things in his mind that he would not say even to your loved ones, but only to himself and in secret, but there are other things that every people is afraid to tell even to himself.
The memory unites, what separates life.

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The serenity

The serenity (Bantimurung, Indonesia)

We must learn to remain calm even when dreams remain just dreams or when expectations are not realized. 

The real miracle is that you can ask not to be able to do something extraordinary guy walking the streets of heaven, but to walk on earth at this time and enjoy the beauty and serenity that are available now. 

Any people who, when questioned about what the gift that would one day receive reply: "A little bit of serenity".

Yet it peace is mysterious as ever: all they want, but no one knows exactly what it is. 

The advice is not to try to make sure that things go as you want, but accept things as they go: the only way we will always be calm.

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Work on yourself

Work on yourself

Toying between their strengths, like anyone, and when you receive praise, in your heart, you feel realized, the best.
If But someone pinches you, showing your flaws and your weaknesses, make sure you do not get angry, do treasure rather than what you are told and strengthens your mind and the way you act.
Thank him and working on yourself and the way you do and say.
Your task will be to put you in humble listening and continue every day to make judgment on you, in order to really become a people strong in spirit, and only in the heart.
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The pleasure

The pleasure

Almost all authors and each one of us, spoke of the pleasure and every one of us has found his words and he described in several ways.

On one thing they all agree, life can not be lived without having tasted and felt the pleasure and enjoyment.

Although the minimum opportunities for pleasure that can happen to me and I'll get it.
(Michel de Montaigne)
What is not permissible to give pleasure, that which is forbidden inflamed. 

(Ovid)
The pleasure of a rich man who does the will is not to think of those who enrich , but to those who disappoint.

(A.Bonnard)
The pleasure is on the wire, and turns into pain if you did not measure.

(Seneca)
One of the great pleasure in life is in doing what people say you will not be able to do.
(Walter Bagehot)
The man is destroyed by politics without principles , with pleasure without conscience, with the wealth without work, knowledge without character , his business without morality, science without humanity with, by faith without sacrifices.
(Mahatma Gandhi)
What a strange thing is the pleasure and the pain , it seems that each of them always follow its opposite and that both of them do not want to ever be in the same people.
(Socrate)
Pleasure is the most reliable means of recognition given to us by Nature and the one who has suffered much less knowledgeable than the one who has much rejoiced.
(Gabriele D'Annunzio )

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What I do for my brother

What I do for my brother

The most persistent and urgent question of life is: What I do for my brother close? 

Of one thing I am sure each of us, can never appreciate the sunny days if you have not experienced before rainy days and as it passes through the darkness all the more relished the moments of light. 

So instead of cursing the darkness and continue to live in this situation it is better to light a candle.

Each of us is called to decide whether to walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness. 

Open to others, knowing how to give and share, make that the light of your heart turns on and everything takes a different color. 

Illuminate our lives and making heating heat from the heat of the people who are nearby.

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The eyes: gli occhi

Novel (The eyes)

How beautiful it is to watch people and especially look them in the eyes, in fact the soul of a person is hidden in her eyes and that is why we have so often afraid to look us in the eyes.

I like it, more and more, draw near to anyone looking into his eyes and really finding out what the other wants to tell me. 

We learn to look deeply and lovingly, without judgment or prejudice, only with the eyes that want to help, who want to love, they want to freely discuss and find a solution to everything.

Quanto e’ bello osservare le persone e soprattutto guardarle negli occhi, infatti l'anima di una persona è nascosta dentro il suo sguardo ed e’ per questo che tante volte abbiamo paura di farci guardare negli occhi.

A me piace, sempre di piu’, accostarmi a chiunque guardandolo negli occhi e scoprendo veramente che cosa l’altro vuole dirmi. 

Impariamo a guardare profondamente e con amore, senza giudizi o pregiudizi, solo con degli occhi che vogliono aiutare, che vogliono amare, che vogliono liberamente confrontarsi e trovare la soluzione a tutto.

Observes the thoughts

Observes the thoughts (Malaysya)

When your words are spoken with kindness creates confidence.
The kindness in your thoughts then, creates depth and when you are able to use your kindness in giving, creates love.
For most people nothing creates more problems of the effort of thinking.
Buddha says: The thoughts manifests itself through the words, and the words occurs with the purpose, and the purpose it develops the habit and the habit is strengthened in character.
Then observe the thoughts and its ways with care, and let it rise from the love that arises from the consideration for all beings.

The sweat

The sweat

Few people mention the sweat and I want to offer my little reflections. 

Easy and smooth is to choose the path of evil, a flat road and we very close, but the gods have placed sweat in front of the virtues is indeed long and hard at the beginning is a simple path, sour and slightly marked, but when it comes the peak becomes easier and you are lucky enough to discover another world. 

One thing is for sure along the way avoids bringing in the heart of envy, rather than begrudge continues to walk and build with your sweat. 

In fact, if everyone lived by the sweat of the brow, the earth would become a paradise.

The tone of your voice

The tone of your voice

I stopped for a moment to reflections on the tone of the voice.

How many things you can do with your voice and its tone can really penetrate deeply. 

The tone of a voice manages to caress the soul, sometimes do not count the words I can say little or nothing, but the tone of a voice makes you understand who talks to you if he does it with passion, seriousness and sincerity. 

The tone of a voice can caress each people and caresses that this gives, no one can forget.

Wait or move

Wait or move

Today I sat and watched the sea and immediately my thoughts went to all the people in the world are: wait.
But those who wait? Wait what?
Maybe a miracle that may never come, but you can also create, start now.
Wait for true love, sincere, authentic, that lasts a lifetime, but then they are useful move, busy, look for him everywhere.
You can lose every train because it is not the right one, but if you at least know the direction, take the first that happens, if it is destiny and if you have a bit of luck, you will find what you are looking for along the way.

The loneliness

The loneliness

The loneliness you feel bigger when we are alone, but when we are with other people. 

People look at us, but without seeing each other, that we feel, but without hearing or even worse, that judge us, but without knowing.

Oscar Wilde says:
Everyone says that love hurts, but that's not true.
Loneliness hurts. The rejection hurts.
Losing someone hurts.
All these things confused with love, but in reality, love is the only thing in this world covering all the pain and makes us feel wonderful again.