Prudence in our lives

Prudence in our lives

Today I want to talk about the caution that many believe a value and passed by people of a certain age.

Instead prudence serves at any age and it is always useful in every circumstance of our lives.

First prudence so that it can take good decisions , it must be clear where to go and where to go.

Who does not have ideals and goals to be achieved in one's life is likely to sail adrift of caprice and to be governed by the frivolity and superficiality.

Of course they are correct and necessary goals is essential to treat the formation of a scale of values ​​to guide our feet into what really is good and brings light in our history.

In fact, a prudent people knows how to use calm and do not hurry, you know ask for advice, observes the consequences of his actions, makes decisions quickly enough and has a correct scale of values ​​that guides its implementation.

I give you a few tips that I have put into practice over the years and I think very useful:

Train yourself to ask for advice.

Write down some of the experiences that they may serve others and to himself in the future.

Think about the consequences of concrete action, to learn how to keep them in account other times.

Order a room is an exercise in order and even training to decide quickly (in one place or the other).

This is good or bad? This simple application helps you to make good decisions and good Porsel many many times during our days.
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The courage to restart

The courage to restart

Many times we believe that the courage it is taking actions that challenge the limit and then we jump off a bridge for bungee jumping or we run into a waterfall of 200 meters high.

But it is not so that proves to have a courageous spirit.

The courage when you see it in front of an extremely painful situation you are able to get up, to restart living again and sometimes even shoot a smile.

Is brave who sacrificed his life for others struggling every day to those who have no voice, who after a story he considered the most beautiful of his life is left, but manages to pull out the power that's inside and the courage to the point of stop suffering, who makes breakfast in the morning with his mother, but at night crying over his dead body and has the desire to continue on his way to not throw away the lessons that she has given him , who is recommended by the son: "go up and come home soon!", but in the middle of the night gets a call that will never forget and has the courage to recognize the body's own beloved, who is expecting a baby around the building upon his arrival their own future but it has a miscarriage and must find the strength to start to think about life without him, who must find the courage to reorganize their own life and that of her daughter because coming home unexpectedly one evening finds her husband with another girl, who ended up in jail by mistake, but do not have the money to prove it and has the power to serve a sentence that does not deserve, but that will mark him for the rest of his life, too long for those who suffer abuse and decides to fight this injustice while knowing that the consequences could ruin him, who discovers he has cancer but can not do anything to stop the process and decided to make the most of every moment of his life because any moment might be the last , who by an ultrasound will discover that your children has a birth and the difficult choice whether to keep it or to deprive him of a different existence decides to take care of him for a lifetime .

The way of the heart is the way of courage: it means to accept to live in insecurity, love, hope, and always to head into the unknown.

Having courage does not mean not being afraid.

It simply means to challenge it and not allow it to direct our lives, to paralyze our imagination, to block our outbursts of love.

The way of courage leads to set out on dangerous paths, because life has always been and will always be dangerous.

Accept everything that life gives us, the risks, difficulties , in pain, without flinching , this is courage.

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Reviewing our lives

Reviewing our lives

Let us try for a moment to stop and imagine sitting in front of a video that conveys our lives and that continues beyond the present. 

Of course we would be tempted to press forward, to see the future, but in spite of curiosity, we would be afraid to know before what can we expect in the future life. 

So I think that each of us prefers to focus on the past, reviewing the most interesting parts of our lives and be happy. 

The moment of birth, with the mother who embraces us and we cuddle and dad that lifts us up and smiles. 

We would spend to cover all the beautiful moments, continuing to pause and instead would bring forward every day more sad and more delicate moments. 

Of all the joyful moments we would like to print a summary in our mind and make sure that all of the times that there will still be days of sorrow we can have that tape that helps us to move forward.

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The courage to change

The courage to change

These days I found myself talking to many people who are unhappy with their lives that are however not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned by an ephemeral security, conformism, conservatism, all of which seem apparently give you peace of mind, but in reality for the adventurous spirit of each of us there is nothing more devastating than to have no future.

The center of the vital spirit of each people is his passion for adventure.

The joy of living comes from new experiences and hence there is no greater happiness of having a horizon of constant change, the lie every day under a new and different sun.

Not that we have to find the courage to go against the usual lifestyle and throw us into an existence unconventional.

Our time is short, so do not have to waste.

Let us not be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people's thinking.

Don't let the noise of others opinions drown out our inner voice.

We find the courage to follow our heart and our intuition.

The world is in the hands of those who dare to dream and take the chance to live their dreams.

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Past, present, future

Past, present, future

In life you always dreams and aim higher than what is considered within our reach. 

Do not just try to overcome our contemporaries or our predecessors, but we learn to overcome ourselves. 

To do this it is useful in our lives is visible the beauty of time, knowing that: the beauty of the past is that it is the past. 

The beauty of this present is that it is a gift which is always alive and always new. 

The nice thing about the future is that it is based on a forgotten past and can not go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

Only then your future will be full of exciting opportunities that will make you feel good and be happy.

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Living life

Living life

Living life reminds us that every moment is precious, we should all have awareness.

Riding the wave of the moment, breathe in and breathe out with peace of mind and transform every moment of life made ​​sense for our desires.
Life takes a step at a time and it is this you do right now that will take you into the future.
Today there tomorrow, will always and only tomorrow. 

Alive today, because today is life. 

Make him feel it.

We young people and the future

Young people and the future

What I would like to express is the fact that you can not think that young people can have an interesting expectation from the future if the adults do not help them to have one, we can not hide behind the fact that once young people were more passionate or that they were more active, the youth of today are the mirror of the time that other adults have created for us.

And adults?
They are part of the time living the same young people with whom they have to do and perhaps we should realize that no one knows better than the young interpret the times we are living, perhaps the role of adults use their lenses to observe the present time and build a better future than what was given to us.
In short, I fear that often the listlessness and lack of resourcefulness and productivity of us guys is often the result of a lack of confidence on the part of the adults world against us and against [...]