The look of husband, wife and children

The look of Theresia

Many times the climate in our families become stormy with several clouds of anger that are raised in our day.
Winds of rigid impositions on children and rumble of thunder roaring protests.
Then comes the usual hail of words ice, frustrating every patient education, ruining the shoots of the relationship between parents and children, up to spoil the peace between husband and wife.
What is most worrying is the continuing bad weather.
At times it.s better to look at the sky, study it in a hurry and run for cover, knowing that each of us is also heaven for others.
I look a wife, I look a children and their sky, as deep, it takes us eye.
All of them are immersed: live it, day after day, and it is processed and it is mutual.
With our eyes, we are the sculptors of other people and share responsibility for the beauty of those around us.
We have an enormous power to look creative, able to shape the profile of one who gives us confident his heart.
Change the look to the children or a spouse mean really see it better.
It's difficult, upsetting and sometimes painful, but this can transform lives and bring back the good weather.
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The courage to restart

The courage to restart

Many times we believe that the courage it is taking actions that challenge the limit and then we jump off a bridge for bungee jumping or we run into a waterfall of 200 meters high.

But it is not so that proves to have a courageous spirit.

The courage when you see it in front of an extremely painful situation you are able to get up, to restart living again and sometimes even shoot a smile.

Is brave who sacrificed his life for others struggling every day to those who have no voice, who after a story he considered the most beautiful of his life is left, but manages to pull out the power that's inside and the courage to the point of stop suffering, who makes breakfast in the morning with his mother, but at night crying over his dead body and has the desire to continue on his way to not throw away the lessons that she has given him , who is recommended by the son: "go up and come home soon!", but in the middle of the night gets a call that will never forget and has the courage to recognize the body's own beloved, who is expecting a baby around the building upon his arrival their own future but it has a miscarriage and must find the strength to start to think about life without him, who must find the courage to reorganize their own life and that of her daughter because coming home unexpectedly one evening finds her husband with another girl, who ended up in jail by mistake, but do not have the money to prove it and has the power to serve a sentence that does not deserve, but that will mark him for the rest of his life, too long for those who suffer abuse and decides to fight this injustice while knowing that the consequences could ruin him, who discovers he has cancer but can not do anything to stop the process and decided to make the most of every moment of his life because any moment might be the last , who by an ultrasound will discover that your children has a birth and the difficult choice whether to keep it or to deprive him of a different existence decides to take care of him for a lifetime .

The way of the heart is the way of courage: it means to accept to live in insecurity, love, hope, and always to head into the unknown.

Having courage does not mean not being afraid.

It simply means to challenge it and not allow it to direct our lives, to paralyze our imagination, to block our outbursts of love.

The way of courage leads to set out on dangerous paths, because life has always been and will always be dangerous.

Accept everything that life gives us, the risks, difficulties , in pain, without flinching , this is courage.

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De facto couples and family

De facto couples and family: Children?

In these last times there is nothing to discuss de facto couples, equality, divorce, but no one tal about love, of growth, of respect, of education.

Perhaps it's to recover these dimensions to be credible to the younger generation, do not increase the break-up and make the whole reason for controversy and argument for newspapers and television.

True love has a heart who is smaller, who is helpless, who should really be protected, stop accusing us with one another, saying okay so it has always been so and instead begin to look in the eyes and tell us what can I do for the younger generation? What am I doing right now?

Let us not put the love for the children ones tomorrow may be too late.

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Tables and chairs in the square

Tables and chairs in the square

Increase in the world the news of riots , violence against women and children and the people who lead a normal life.

Violence that is consumed in their house and in the streets that does not stop in front of anyone, who no longer ashamed to be seen.

But there is an answer to all this? Can you stop?

Of course the mentality of I want everything now that you feel safe in our environment is not good and the isolate, the no longer tolerate their neighbors and brothers and only use the weapon of the complaint and not the lissen, of love one another, to be eating together and inviting us to each other.

Unfortunately, the desire to dominate others, to put others at their service is growing in every area of ​​public and private life.

Violence is also the result of the mentality which honors and reserve than the "stronger", the "smarter", in essence, the most violent in the new generation comes forward mentality of boredom, disinterest and disrespect for life, distrust of the family, society and the state.

Let us pause, reflect and begin to act in our small communities in our areas and our parishes we increase the moments together, conviviality and diminish all those bureaucratic rules that are breaking the sense of togetherness and closeness.

We carry tables and chairs in the square we share what we have prepared and eat together and if someone stops to public policy or because we do not respect the dietary table.

We also offer lunch to him with a smile and let's understand that being together is the solution to many problems and violence that can be felt in the world.

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Serious or seriousness

Seriousness (Island Banana in Indonesia)

Use the seriousness or be a serious people. 

The real maturity of man lies in the seriousness that children put in the game.
We learn to live life and not take it too seriously, but seriously.
Work seriously, but not taking the complaints that are made to us in a personal way.
If you take yourself, you are angry and you will lose our advantage.
If you take them personally, you put you against them.
Instead, make sure you draw close to people and to life using the seriousness and commitment to accept all situations and work to ensure that you are happy with what you do and how you live.
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Respect for nature

Respect for nature

The education in respect of the nature part by the boys and always have to involve the whole community. 

For the specific purpose of educational study is not only to simple notions naturalistic or scientific, but provoke a greater awareness in children about environmental issues and to promote a real and continuous change of thoughts and attitude towards the planet where live. 

Making them understand that if you respect nature that provides us with a healthy and balanced growth. 

Therefore it is important to know our territory and implement initiatives to respect and protect it. 

Finally, we must encourage in children a reflections on the importance of respecting the rules that allow us to manage and at the same time protect the heritage terrritoriale which is the common good.

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Two jumps like children

Two jumps like children

Nobody is prfect, but each one is unique: this makes precious the gift of life, because no one can give to the world what we bring.

Each year the spring back as far as the winter has been long and hard.

There is a perfection in the world, absolute, just as there is within us.

Do not you knock at the door, open by themselves if the energy that is committed is the one that allows the harvest!

Whenever you find yourself walking down the street, even if you're dressed in a suit and tie or have high heels, try to jump as children do for a few steps.

Already the idea you ashamed? You must have been well hidden your inner child for a judge immediately with: "This should not be done".

Youth sells the baby is inside of you, and devotes two hops: you'll find yourself smiling and your innocence will smile with you.

Express yourself freely in your hearing, do not be afraid of what you feel, in fact, anything that can become not express resentment towards yourself, others and the world.

Love your life, smile and do what that you like to feel happy.

Spread love

Madre Teresa di Calcutta: spread love

Read this beautiful reflection on love of Madre Teresa di Calcutta, are words full of feeling and enthusiasm:

Spread love everywhere you go:

First of all in your own house.

Give love to your children,

To your wife or husband,

To a next door neighbor . . .

Let no one ever come to you

Without leaving better and happier.

Be the living expression of God's kindness;

Kindness in your face,

Kindness in your eyes,

Kindness in your smile,

Kindness in your warm greeting.

Mutual love

Mutual love

Today I leave you this meditation of Mother Teresa of Calcutta on mutual love, I find it really interesting and deep.
Read it and let it read.
If between father and mother there is so much affection for each other, the children will learn the same affection and will settle in them.
And if it comes time for them to be parents, they will know exactly what to do and how to do it.
So it is really very important in the family kingdoms of this deep love for each other.
Teach them to your children, because nowadays many schools do not teach them these things.
You, fathers and mothers, are the only ones able to help your children to achieve the fundamental objective, to love and to be loved, for which they were created.
Teach your children to share is something very good and beneficial.
Do you know that even here, in your country, right next to where you live, there are many people who are not , who feel unwanted, neglected ?
Every day there are more than three hundred those who come to us looking for a little food, perhaps to feel a bit of warmth, a smile, a handshake, nothing more.
You know, really?
Come and you will realize it!
It is possible that in your family there is someone who is feeling lonely, unloved, sick.

Mutual love forever.

The questions from children to adults

Children appreciate when adults know how to answer their questions, but very often adults or do not have time or do not understand the questions that are made.

We learn to answer and get involved with simplicity.

"The wind, the wind of what is done?" Asked a children to an adult.

"Not at all, it is made ​​out of nothing."

"But then, because it takes me away?" Insists the children.

"And the air, the air moving."

"And what has made ​​the air?"

"You're welcome, the air is made ​​up of nothing," said the adult. [...]