Prudence in our lives

Prudence in our lives

Today I want to talk about the caution that many believe a value and passed by people of a certain age.

Instead prudence serves at any age and it is always useful in every circumstance of our lives.

First prudence so that it can take good decisions , it must be clear where to go and where to go.

Who does not have ideals and goals to be achieved in one's life is likely to sail adrift of caprice and to be governed by the frivolity and superficiality.

Of course they are correct and necessary goals is essential to treat the formation of a scale of values ​​to guide our feet into what really is good and brings light in our history.

In fact, a prudent people knows how to use calm and do not hurry, you know ask for advice, observes the consequences of his actions, makes decisions quickly enough and has a correct scale of values ​​that guides its implementation.

I give you a few tips that I have put into practice over the years and I think very useful:

Train yourself to ask for advice.

Write down some of the experiences that they may serve others and to himself in the future.

Think about the consequences of concrete action, to learn how to keep them in account other times.

Order a room is an exercise in order and even training to decide quickly (in one place or the other).

This is good or bad? This simple application helps you to make good decisions and good Porsel many many times during our days.
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The Easter and Christmas

Toraja: the dead are alive

Every year we celebrate Christmas and tells everyone that is born in our hearts the love that God comes into our lives and our world history, then comes the Easter gives us a God mocked, crucified, who calls us to live the love, sharing and conquering death and deaths due to the many inner darkness that often surround our lives and rise again with Him in the blessed life.
Each of us believer and non-believer should find in these festivals of opportunities for joint reflection on the world to come, about the world that we will deliver the new generations who call us the right to return to their enthusiasm for life.
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The illness and suffering

The illness and suffering

My reflections today on the theme of suffering, each of us during their lifetime suffering in different ways and not always covered by medical.

First of all, we should not be afraid of suffering, there is never given a weight so great that our hearts can't bear.
Suffering helps us to grow, it is not necessary to experience pain, but who knows, it may be said to have fully lived their lives, to have consumed, not to stand still on the surface.
However, many people find their cross too heavy: those who have failed in their profession, who is suffering from an incurable disease, those who have been abandoned by their partners.
Here also, the Christian does not have recipes and much less guarantees that enable them to accomplish this task and to deal positively with the disease more than other men.
Experience shows that even in the Christian disease has a point of reference which can constantly turn has to deal not only with the setback represented by his illness, but also sustain his faith and deal with the crisis and the questioning, as well as must go from knowing quiete abstract of the need to carry the cross behind Jesus, not taking any of a cross, but his own.
The paths that the disease raises and the results to which it leads, are always unpredictable.
The meaning of illness is never already given, but the disease event is an event in which we must, with effort and patience to find the right way.

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Reviewing our lives

Reviewing our lives

Let us try for a moment to stop and imagine sitting in front of a video that conveys our lives and that continues beyond the present. 

Of course we would be tempted to press forward, to see the future, but in spite of curiosity, we would be afraid to know before what can we expect in the future life. 

So I think that each of us prefers to focus on the past, reviewing the most interesting parts of our lives and be happy. 

The moment of birth, with the mother who embraces us and we cuddle and dad that lifts us up and smiles. 

We would spend to cover all the beautiful moments, continuing to pause and instead would bring forward every day more sad and more delicate moments. 

Of all the joyful moments we would like to print a summary in our mind and make sure that all of the times that there will still be days of sorrow we can have that tape that helps us to move forward.

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The courage to change

The courage to change

These days I found myself talking to many people who are unhappy with their lives that are however not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned by an ephemeral security, conformism, conservatism, all of which seem apparently give you peace of mind, but in reality for the adventurous spirit of each of us there is nothing more devastating than to have no future.

The center of the vital spirit of each people is his passion for adventure.

The joy of living comes from new experiences and hence there is no greater happiness of having a horizon of constant change, the lie every day under a new and different sun.

Not that we have to find the courage to go against the usual lifestyle and throw us into an existence unconventional.

Our time is short, so do not have to waste.

Let us not be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people's thinking.

Don't let the noise of others opinions drown out our inner voice.

We find the courage to follow our heart and our intuition.

The world is in the hands of those who dare to dream and take the chance to live their dreams.

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The fun

The fun

Each of us wants to live their lives while having fun and the first rule is to make sure that everything that you do you live with a smile and putting passion. 

What fun it would be then, if I could have anything I want without any problems? Would have no value.
In fact I am convinced that every day life and fun go hand in hand.
Were one to spend a whole year always on vacation, having fun as it would be stressful work.
The secret of our success is to make sure that our vocation is our fun, knowing even out of the box and the rules not to miss all the fun. 

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Past, present, future

Past, present, future

In life you always dreams and aim higher than what is considered within our reach. 

Do not just try to overcome our contemporaries or our predecessors, but we learn to overcome ourselves. 

To do this it is useful in our lives is visible the beauty of time, knowing that: the beauty of the past is that it is the past. 

The beauty of this present is that it is a gift which is always alive and always new. 

The nice thing about the future is that it is based on a forgotten past and can not go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

Only then your future will be full of exciting opportunities that will make you feel good and be happy.

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Blessed

Blessed

I found these beatitudes specially made for us and I will agree, give me your own opinion, I find them profoundly true and useful to better our lives.
Blessed are those who can laugh at themselves: a thirst for fun.
Blessed are those who know how to distinguish a boulder from a mountain: avoid many hassles.
Blessed are those who know how to listen and be silent: they will learn many new things.
Blessed are those who are attentive to the demands of others will be stewards joy.
Blessed are you if you can look carefully at the small things and serenely important ones: you will go far in life.
Blessed are you if you can appreciate a and a snub forget: your path is always sunny. [...]

Do things with the calm

Do things with the calm

 The hustle never leads to nothing, but it always ends with you doing the wrong things and sometimes you have to recreate them in more.
The head of a village poor but happy, went to visit a country where the abundance reigned. 

It was not so much the result of some kind of natural wealth, but who knows what to strict utilization of time. 

There were no breaks in the lives of men. 

Every moment of the day was intended to work, trade, business, and money flowed in abundance.
Back home, the village chief also wanted his fellow citizens would become masters of their own time and not as it had been until then. 

But it came to pass that, with the shrinking of time and the swell of abundance, happiness disappeared. [...]